His Moral Stand Against Ableist Remarks Made Him the Villain After Walking Out on Being the Best Man
Have people ever tried to convince you you’re in the wrong for not putting up with them mistreating you?
A man has gone to the Reddit community Am I The A**hole—also known as AITA for short—wondering if he really is in the wrong for dropping out of his brother’s wedding after the newlyweds were bigoted towards his wife.
The thirty-six-year-old man, OP, tells us that he was intended to be the best man at his thirty-year-old brother’s wedding, a role that he was seemingly quite happy with.
Still, understanding that many of their guests had young kids, they hired a professional sitter to look after them at a nearby venue. So far, so good. It’s what happened. Next, that’ll shock you.
OP’s wife is physically disabled due to some injuries. As a result, she can be a little slow to understand what others are saying and respond to things.
For example, sometimes she needs help eating, and OP will cut her food. She is, however, very much a cognitively aware adult and a “smart, capable woman,” says OP.
After the rehearsal dinner, OP was pulled aside by his future sister-in-law, who confusingly started talking to him about the additional venue with the babysitter for under twelve.
She then asked if OP’s wife had any specific food preferences, assuring him they would ensure extra food for her there. With the children. Excluded from the wedding.
At first, OP was confused. He didn’t understand what his future sister-in-law was getting at until she outright stated that she thought his wife would “be better suited” to stay with the kids and babysat.
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