We usually think we have a good understanding of how the world works, only to be stunned by a series of revelations that destroy our fantasies. A recent post asked, “What are some undeniable facts you’ve learned over time?” The responses were nothing short of spectacular, presenting mind-boggling statistics and startling discoveries. Buckle up, get comfortable, and brace yourself for an exciting ride as we release an array of knowledge bombs. Learning has never been this fascinating!
Not So Important
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You are not nearly as important as you imagine, and that can either be depressing or liberating. You choose how to let that reality affect you.
Do you wonder what they’re thinking of you? They’re not thinking of you at all. They’re looking at their phone.
Small Friends
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It’s better to have a small group of close friends than a large group of not-so-close friends.
As life goes on, you’ll need people you can depend on and who can depend on you. Stuff happens. Parents die, spouses die, and sometimes even kids die. Other family members get sick or injured and don’t make a full recovery. Couples get divorced.
There WILL be times you’ll need to lean on good friends and times that they will need you.
Fixing Others
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You often can’t fix someone else’s problems. If they seem emotionally invested in changing, you may be able to pull it off, but there are also people who are so deeply invested in their dysfunction that they’ll drag you down with them if you get too involved in trying to save them.
You can assist someone in implementing their plan, but it has to be their plan, and they have to lead the implementation. Otherwise, they will fail/revert, and they will blame you.
Keep Travelling
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Travel. It’s a big beautiful world, and we are only here briefly.
I truly feel every high school in America should require a 6-month trip. I would have no problem as a child-free taxpayer funding this. There is a giant world out there that doesn’t operate in our bubble, and you absolutely cannot make good decisions in life, voting, environment, or world politics unless you have a perspective.
Bad Badges
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Fact: nothing changes a man faster than a badge.
There is a saying that power corrupts, and absolute power corrupts absolutely, but I disagree. I think those traits are already present and are just uncovered as a person achieves power or position. Many people follow the rules until they think they are not being watched and will not be caught or until they rise to a level of power where they think the rules no longer apply to them. Only a very few have such a sterling character that they are capable of remaining benevolent and ethical in spite of great power: such as Lincoln.
Being Right
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That just because in life you are right about something, sometimes you just have to suck it up and let it go because the consequences of being right can have a very negative impact.
You can be right, or you can be happy. Only very rarely do you get to do both.
It’s Unfair
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Nothing is fair, and “hard work” doesn’t guarantee success. You only have a finite number of seconds in life – and you don’t know how many – so unpaid overtime for someone else is basically giving them part of your life.
Have integrity and do what you’re paid to do, but then stop.
Happily Childfree
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“Having children is a crap shoot.”
Yes, it’s a crap shoot, indeed. It’s lost on some people that children can grow up to act like idiots despite how you raised them, not because of how you raised them.
Not Really Asking
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When people ask for your opinion, they seek confirmation or validation rather than constructive criticism.
The lesson is learning to tell the difference between requests for validation and requests for actual feedback.
Completely Unfixable
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You can’t fix stupid.
My life’s mantra: People Are Stupid. Also, driving is above everyone’s pay grade.
Same Universe
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No matter what you decide to believe, the universe is still the same.
Clear Difference
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In your life, you will have people who start as acquaintances then become actual friends, and some who will always be acquaintances.
Don’t confuse the two.
Building Up
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Compound Interest builds up quickly.
If you live with consumer debt, your life is as much as 20% more expensive than it is for people who don’t live with consumer debt. Get out of debt and stay out. And then, let that compound interest reveal itself to you.
It’s Unfaxable!
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“You can’t fax glitter.”
“Finally, one that resonates with me deeply.”
Not Permanent
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“Friends will come and go. Very little remains the same over a lifetime.
Got to a point in my life where history means nothing; either you show me you deserve to be in my life, or you’re out. I’m not keeping anyone around for nostalgia.”
They Don’t Care
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No one cares for your well-being at work. Don’t trust anyone when it comes to your job. Keep your comments to yourself and mind your business. People who you think are your ride and die will throw you under the bus to keep their job. And you do the same if any information is shared with you. Do you think they will help you with their bills if you get fired over something they did? Or vice versa?
At the Core
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All of my life, I kept hearing that people were, at their core, intrinsically good.
I have learned that, at their core, people are pretty selfish and cold, with the rare good person mixed into the lot.
Stick to Yourself
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Strive for independence. You don’t want to be dependent on anyone.
The Majority
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Most people are self-centered, and many very selfish. Not necessarily all bad people, just so inwardly focused. And one more… most people do not know how to listen.
Getting Worse
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No matter how bad things seem, they can always get worse.
The Value of Money
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Rich or poor, it’s nice to have money. Everyone has the equal right to live under a bridge. If you want to lose a friend, lend them money. People never realize when they are being flattered for a purpose. It’s WHO you know. Learn to be quiet when you are done.
THE HIDDEN DESIRES OF MEN: 10 THINGS MEN SECRETLY CRAVE IN A WIFE BUT DON’T HAVE THE COURAGE TO ADMIT
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You may think that men only want two things from a wife, food and some fun in the bedroom. However, males are more complex than that. Here are ten things men want from their wives that will enhance the relationship.
STUCK IN THE 60S: 10 THINGS BABY BOOMERS REFUSE TO LET GO OF
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Memories of the “good old days” keep us trapped in the past. Baby boomers love to retell tales of how it was “in my day.” At the same time, millennials will tell them to get with the times. Being stuck in a time warp from which they don’t want to snap out of, here are things that baby boomers still think are fantastic. STUCK IN THE 60S: 10 THINGS BABY BOOMERS REFUSE TO LET GO OF
10 THINGS MEN DESIRE THAT WILL MAKE WOMEN RAISE THEIR EYEBROWS
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You may think that, finally, you have your man figured out. How wrong you were. Here are 10 things men love that you may find surprising, according to an online forum.
10 THINGS MEN DESIRE THAT WILL MAKE WOMEN RAISE THEIR EYEBROWS
THE RED FLAGS ARE WAVING: 18 HOBBIES THAT WILL SCARE AWAY ANY POTENTIAL PARTNER
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We wanted to know what hobbies are a big fat nope.
THE RED FLAGS ARE WAVING: 18 HOBBIES THAT WILL SCARE AWAY ANY POTENTIAL PARTNER
WAKE UP, LADIES! THE 10 BITTER TRUTHS MEN WISH WOMEN WOULD FINALLY ACKNOWLEDGE
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Regarding men and women, it seems like we’re from different planets, though we are the same species. Women always come across as enigmatic, a mystery men must fathom. Yet, men can be just as challenging to understand. Here are ten things that men wish women knew about them. Hopefully, this helps females gain deeper insight into the world of men.
WAKE UP, LADIES! THE 10 BITTER TRUTHS MEN WISH WOMEN WOULD FINALLY ACKNOWLEDGE
