Society places standards on how each gender should behave. When a male (or female) does something that is deemed inappropriate (though not morally wrong), fingers of judgment get pointed.
There are some things men like to do and shouldn’t be made to feel bad about it. Here are 21 examples of what men should be allowed to do without being judged.
We’re Related
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“I just want to go out with my nieces without people giving me weird looks because they are teenagers, and I’m in my 30s lol.”
Just because a guy is out with a younger girl doesn’t mean there is hanky-panky going on.
I’m Parenting
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“Be alone with children. Taking care of your kids without their mom around. Everyone thinks adult males are creeps around kids unattended. I can assure you most normal men are just taking care of their children.”
Don’t automatically assume every guy with children is a deviant.
I Need to Talk to Someone
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“Honestly the whole showing emotion thing is huge. Needing friends or emotional support.”
Let men know that it’s okay to show their emotions. Keeping them bottled up only makes things worse and creates an emotional and psychological time bomb.
I Love Your Tie
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“Compliment each other.”
Some guys feel uncomfortable giving or receiving compliments.
Males Have This Problem, Too.
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“Talk about our trauma. I can’t even open up to my therapist.”
SA and trauma aren’t women-only issues.
I’ll Have a Coke, Thanks
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“Decline to drink beer.”
Yes, not everyone is into drinking.
It’s My Hobby
“Have feminine perceived hobbies and interests. Flower arranging, receiving flowers, knitting, quilting, homemaking or interior design.”
Men are allowed to be creative and interested in what is seen as female pursuits.
My Hands and Feet Are Awesome
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“Pedicures and grooming in general. Looks so relaxing.”
Why can’t men be allowed to have their nails and feet taken care of by a professional?
Time to Relax
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“Having a day to themselves every once in a while.”
Pampering yourself isn’t a sign of selfishness but of self-care and self-love.
Let’s Hug
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“Platonic/friendly intimacy with other men. Fellas, it’s not gay to hug your buddies unless you are romantically interested in them, and there’s nothing wrong with being gay!”
At times you just need intimate support from another male as they are the ones you can truly understand what you’re going through.
A Seat for One, Please
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“Going to movies or restaurants alone.”
At times, your own company is all that you need.
Look at All the Bubbles!
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“Take a bubble bath”
Yes, men love to soak in the suds.
Let Me Check
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“Asking for a paternity test. While women know for sure the baby is theirs, Men rely purely on the mother’s trust to not lie to them.”
It doesn’t mean a guy is making an excuse to avoid responsibility.
Here, Kitty
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“Be a cat, dad.”
Sometimes cats are all that a man wants. Lots and lots of cats…
That’s So Adorable
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“Enjoy cute things.”
Guys can love cuteness as much as girls can. Oh, look at that Hello Kitty clock!
What Are You Listening To?
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“Listen to Avril Lavigne and Kelly Clarkson while dancing and cleaning the house.”
Crank it up. I love this song. By the way, can you pass me the feather duster? There’s a shelf I want to wipe.
It’s Comfortable
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“Cross our legs when sitting.”
It’s not girly to sit with your legs crossed. Sometimes it’s a relaxing way to sit.
It’s My Purse
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“Use a purse or sling bag. I have too much stuff for pockets but not enough for a backpack. Fanny pack is an option, but being 37, I feel like I need to be in my early 50s for me to be culturally accepted into the nerdy older dad with a fanny pack group.”
You can still look manly with a purse.
There Is No Innuendo
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“Eat a banana.”
I’m hungry and needed some energy. Stop looking at me like that.
Love the Color
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“Wear pink”
Pink is the new black. Men, feel free to wear it without shame.
Rub My Feet
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“Want to be pampered/taken care of once in a while.”
All a guy needs is to be spoilt now and then.
Think of Your Man’s Feelings
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As you can see, some men enjoy the same passions and pursuits as women. Why should they be made to feel guilty or less than a man because they enjoy what a few people consider is solely the domain of women?
If the guy is happy, leave him alone and let him delight in what he’s doing.
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