You might wonder why you aren’t doing well with the guys. It could be because of some of the things you do. Have you thought that you might be toxic? If you’re unsure, here’s a list of toxic things women do.
They Run Between Emotional Extremes
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“If there’s a back and forth between her being crazy into you and completely ignoring you.”
If your friends (especially your male companions) tell you that you run hot and cold, then you could be toxic. Nobody wants to be around someone who constantly gives off mixed messages.
Speak Words That Are Empty
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“No integrity, no morals, and no ownership of actions. Always favor actions over words – if the words don’t match the actions, then they’re lying.”
When you have no moral foundation, guys will soon be telling you, “See ya!”. Seek help for your egotism and lack of responsibility.
Needing To Be in Charge
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“Controlling behaviors. Don’t accept any of that, and you won’t fall into a toxic relationship.”
This is a red flag of insecurity and fear of being abandoned. Deal with your need to control your man.
Jealous Much?
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“For real. My ex used to get upset that I had social plans without her, that I had female friends, that I wouldn’t text her to check in when I went anywhere or share a calendar.”
You bring tension into the relationship because you see every female as a threat. Guys can have female friends without any romantic attachment. Stop feeling so threatened.
Social Double Standards
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“Being a people pleaser but then treating the people that actually care about her like trash.”
You want people to accept you, so you bend to their every wish. Yet when it comes to those who truly have your interests at heart, you don’t care about them. It’s time you took stock of how superficial you are.
Blame Shifting
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“Every one of her problems is everybody’s fault but hers. ‘This person did this 6 years ago. That’s why I’m like this.’”
Someone who is ready to point the finger at those around her is a girl you want to avoid. Of course, she will say that it’s totally your fault that she is lonely and no one wants to be with her. So much easier to blame others rather than confront one’s personal issues.
Other Girls Hate Me
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“When a girl complains that other girls are mean to her for no reason or that ‘girls are too much drama.’”
“Translation: I’m toxic and other women call me out for it. Therefore I don’t like them.”
“Perhaps the reason that other females give you a rough time is that you’re the one causing the drama.” Ouch! That hurt!
I’m About To Cry (in a Manipulative Way)
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“She’s too emotional at everything anyone points out about her.”
Like if you say, ‘Hey, I didn’t like it when you did X,’ and she starts crying and saying you don’t love her anymore, that’s some BS.”
“The women’s ego is so fragile it cracks at the smallest things that upset her. Then she pours on the guilt trip.”
Plays the Field
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“One of the most emotionally affecting things I have learned is that: Her being flirty/uncomfortably close with other guys then calling you insecure for questioning it. She is just keeping you in check while keeping her options.”
“Your girl is comfortable with exploring her options. Yet, if you look at another girl… you just signed your death wish.”
Sucks the Positivity Out of You
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“Makes you feel bad about yourself.”
“The only way people with low self-esteem can feel good about themselves is by pulling others down to their level (or lower). If a woman is doing that to you, then pay attention to the red flag of toxicity. The girl needs help with her esteem issues.”
Stopping toxic behavior can happen only by becoming aware that you are acting in such a way. Confronting the problem takes brutal self-honesty. Yet, it’s necessary if you are longing to have a healthy, loving relationship. Seek the help of mental health professionals who will get alongside you in support as you work on transforming yourself.
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