Some things in a relationship can cause a man’s excitement to wind down. It can leave you wondering what’s wrong.
To help you find the possible cause, here are the top 10 things that turn a man off when it comes to love.
No Communication
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“There’s lack of communication in that one isn’t openly expressing how they feel, but rather passive-aggressively doing so. There are times when someone won’t ever express what they want, and that sucks – both for you and for them. They never clearly establish what they’re looking for, and you never understand the same, which leads you to feel inadequate or as if you’re doing a terrible job of living up to whatever non-established expectations they clearly want. Poor communication, in almost every aspect of a relationship, is a bad thing.”
If you don’t talk clearly to your man, he will soon get tired and frustrated. Then the loving mood is gone.
Have I Told You All About…ME!
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“Gives little attention, does not seem interested, talks about herself only, talks about the previous relationship, and many more.”
Ever have the honor of hanging around someone whose favorite topic was themselves? It’s irritating and definitely a huge turn-off.
Oh, I Just Had a Text
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“Phone has become an extra digit.”
For some, it seems like their life force is supplied digitally by their phone. Without the phone, they will die. It is possible to survive several hours without having to check if you have had a message or if someone has hit the “Like” on your social media post.
When you show more interest in your phone than in the guy who you are on a date with, he will soon be looking for the exit.
Deceit
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“I hate any form of manipulation, even the benign kind.”
It’s not fun being used as a tool for the sole benefit of another person. Are you dating a guy just purely out of revenge towards your ex? Huge turn-off factor there.
Non-stop Talking
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“Being a motor mouth about the dumbest stuff. I’ve had girls go NON-STOP about work, sororities, their friends (who of course, I neither currently nor would ever care THAT much about to hear two hours of stories about them), and whatever else. I know the rule is ‘you’ve never heard a girl complain about talking about herself too much,’ but hey, let us get a word in, or how about let’s talk about something more profound?”
If the conversation is all one-sided and is treated as a complaint dump, then the guy will be switching off fast.
Ugh…You Are Such a Jerk.
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“Being rude to others.”
Want to have a guy go off you quickly? Acting like you’re a princess and putting other people down will do it.
Mind Your Language
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“Profanity (if someone I’ve just met is dropping f-bombs in our third conversation, it’s a turn-off).”
People swear. Some use it as though it’s the only language they know. If you are a girl like that, then don’t be surprised when men go off you. You don’t have to talk like a saint, but keep the foul language in check.
Don’t Be So Needy
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“Personality-wise, being crazy overly attached too early. AKA double and triple texts, ‘WHERE ARE YOU,’ those types of things. It’s all about striking the balance between being interested and still making us chase you. Once we don’t want to chase, it’s a lost cause.”
If a guy feels like you have suddenly become a couple after one date, he will soon plan to avoid you. If you do have attachment issues with people in your life, then seek professional mental help.
You Can’t Have an In-Depth Conversation
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“Not knowing anything about current events in the world.”
Some guys want a girl that has a wide base of knowledge. She can talk about different subjects and give her opinion without sounding arrogant. If you aren’t able to have that level of conversation, then certain guys will be unstimulated (both mentally and physically).
Did You Have a Shower Today…or at Least This Week?
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“Poor hygiene. This is really the worst thing a girl can do. It’s just gross.”
Not caring for your hygiene is a quick kill switch in any potential relationship. Men will steer clear of you.
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