BECAUSE MOM SAYS

When getting to know a potential love interest, we wanted to know what traits come across as codependent.

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“If they text/call and you miss it for a legit reason, but they’re still upset with you… that’s a bad sign. A very bad one. A partner needs to be okay with you not being available 24/7.”

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On a similar note, my ex-boyfriend pulled a similar thing. We had been dating for a while, and one day, he got upset because I didn’t change my profile picture to one of us on New Year’s Eve.”.

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“Making a big deal if you need to postpone a date. Life happens outside of just you, and if s/he can’t accept that, then it’s a dead giveaway.

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“If they passive-aggressively post memes or statuses about something that you did without directly mentioning you, probably in the hopes that you will see it and message them about it.

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“When they act like a strict parent and forbid you from doing things (jealousy is something you can allow to pass, but a control freak? bye).”

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If you mention a guy/girlfriend’s name and your SO gets jealous, run. My ex was the extremely jealous type. Once, he got mad at me because he imagined other guys talking to me.

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BECAUSE MOM SAYS

18 Red Flags of Jealousy and Insecurity That Can Sabotage Your Relationship

When getting to know a potential love interest, we wanted to know what traits come across as codependent.

“If they text/call and you miss it for a legit reason, but they’re still upset with you… that’s a bad sign. A very bad one. A partner needs to be okay with you not being available 24/7.”

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THEY EXPECT YOU TO BE AVAILABLE 24/7

On a similar note, my ex-boyfriend pulled a similar thing. We had been dating for a while, and one day, he got upset because I didn’t change my profile picture to one of us on New Year’s Eve.”.

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SOCIAL MEDIA EXPECTATIONS

“Making a big deal if you need to postpone a date. Life happens outside of just you, and if s/he can’t accept that, then it’s a dead giveaway.

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MAKING A BIG DEAL OUT OF CANCELED DATES

“If they passive-aggressively post memes or statuses about something that you did without directly mentioning you, probably in the hopes that you will see it and message them about it.

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PASSIVE-AGGRESSIVE MEMES/QUOTES

“When they act like a strict parent and forbid you from doing things (jealousy is something you can allow to pass, but a control freak? bye).”

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CONTROL FREAK

If you mention a guy/girlfriend’s name and your SO gets jealous, run. My ex was the extremely jealous type. Once, he got mad at me because he imagined other guys talking to me.

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EXTREME JEALOUSY

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