If you’re looking for a new man in your life, here are 10 things you can use to get an edge. Just remember, though, like fishing, you need to use various tactics as each man is unique. So, there is some trial and error involved as you try to snag a man.
Be Confident
Men love it when a woman is confident and self-assured. However, don’t be arrogant or self-centered. This is what a woman online had to say (great input from a female perspective!):
“Guys really do like confidence, if you are a confident, outgoing girl (but not self-centered) then guys will automatically be more drawn to you.”
A Sense of Humor
We all want to be around the person who makes us laugh and smile. As one online user says regarding an attractive trait in women:
“Humour, but that goes for everyone in general. A good sense of humor is always a big plus in my eyes.”
Intelligence
“We always enjoy talking to women who say I understand your point of view but then… Instead of Oh yeah? Fine, do what you want. Don’t talk to me… X-( I personally love talking to intelligent women. They are sexier than the sexy ones.”
That’s from a guy on an online forum.
When a woman can have an engaging and mentally stimulating conversation, men will adore her.
A Person Who Listens
A problem shared is a problem halved. Yet, not so if the woman isn’t listening. Men want a woman who pays attention to what they are saying.
Be Independent
Sometimes women are stereotyped as wanting a man only for his money. Sadly, this is true for some women. Men love a female who is independent and can take care of herself.
Showing Kindness
“Her kindness. I always fall for that. A woman can be so kind to me that I start having a crush on her. Most of the time, I know they’re just being nice to me, but sometimes it feels like they’re flirting with me.”
A woman who is kind is a big draw card for men. It shows that you care and have empathy. Watch the men gravitate toward you.
Being Physically Attractive
Relationships have their initial spark when a man and woman look at one another and think, “Mmmm…that person looks fine!” Men adore a woman who makes an effort to look good (the same goes for men!). Of course, this is all subjective as what one man finds beautiful may not be the same for another guy.
Confidence in the Bedroom
Men love a woman who is confident in bed. They enjoy a partner who is wanting to spice things up by trying different things.
Being Honest
A woman that is honest gets a man’s respect. They know that they can trust you and also have an understanding of where you stand on issues.
This is what one online user had to say:
“If a girl can show me she won’t betray me or be disloyal, that is a good start. I also appreciate her having the same interests as me, but mainly, it is how she treats me and my feelings.”
Being Optimistic
Life can throw us curve balls. However, men love a woman who can look on the bright side of life and takes things in their stride.
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