It’s important to remember that every homeless person and every situation is unique, so there’s no one-size-fits-all response. However, here are 21 creative and thoughtful ways to respond when a homeless person asks you for money, aiming to offer helpful solutions or respectful acknowledgment:
‘Would you Like a Drink?”
Offering a homeless person some food or a drink is often very welcome. You can purchase them a lunch item, coffee, or water bottle from a nearby store when you can.
“Can I Help Buy You Some Toiletries?”
Instead of cash, you can offer to buy a homeless person toiletries if they already have food. Don’t worry about offending the person; they will be grateful for support in staying clean. As many as 53% of homeless people have jobs, so helping them prepare for the day is very helpful.
“Can I Help you With Your Fare?”
If you would instead help a homeless person get to a shelter, job interview, or medical appointment, you can offer to help with transport fees. Instead of giving the person cash, you can offer to walk them to the bus or subway.
“ I have Some Socks for You”
Donating clothing or socks is a great way to help homeless people when you do not want to offer cash. If you have spare items, they can offer much-needed comfort, so pop them into your bag the next time you head into town.
“I’ve Left Some Food at the Shelter”
Regular contributions to a local shelter or food bank can make a more significant impact when directed to organizations supporting the homeless community. If you come across a homeless person asking for money and know a shelter is nearby, you can direct them to their services.
“How are You Today?”
While a homeless person may ask you for money, they will understand if you cannot always do so. You can ask them how they’re doing, listen with empathy, and acknowledge their presence, which will make them feel valued.
“ I understand that Must be Difficult for You.”
Offering non-judgmental support will show that you genuinely care about the person. Showing concern without judgment or assumptions is a great way to be a good human being and can influence others to do the same.
“I Can Show You Where The Food Bank Is?”
You cannot always share money with people experiencing homelessness, but you can share information. Point them to local resources and provide information about shelters, food banks, or job assistance programs. With 1 in 7 people in the U.S. using food banks, you should be able to search for one nearby.
“ Would you Like me to Draw You a Map?”
If the homeless person does not want to look for assistance straightaway, you can draw them a map or direct them to apps where they can look for support when they are ready.
“You Have a Lovely Smile”
A compliment can go a long way, so while money is not an option for you, a smile doesn’t have to be out of the question. A kind word or smile acknowledges their humanity and can be equally valuable.
“ I’m Not Able to do That, I’m sorry.’
Try not to be annoyed by people asking you for money; they would not do it if they were not desperate. Instead of a flat “no,” try to respond politely and kindly.
“ I Will Look into That”
Educating yourself and others about the complexities of homelessness is something that you can do when you don’t want to give homeless people cash. Letting them know you are not happy with some of the stereotypes they face is a positive step in understanding.
“ I Already Gave Somebody Else Money”
Sometimes, you must be honest and tell someone you would love to help them but have already supported somebody else. Homeless people understand others need support and will be happy that you have supported others.
“Is There Anything I Can Do For you?”
While there will be boundaries you have to put in place, you can ask the person what they need. Even if you cannot do it yourself, you point them in the right direction and may be able to give someone a call for them.
“Would You Like Me to Walk With You?”
Many cities have donation bins or safe spaces where people can receive support, so you can offer to help a homeless person reach out for help there.
“Thank you for sharing your story. I wish you all the best.”
Simply acknowledging their request without feeling pressured: “Thank you for sharing your story. I wish you all the best.” This shows empathy, letting the homeless person know that we understand.
“ I can’t Talk Right Now”
Setting boundaries if you feel unsafe is important: It’s okay to say no and prioritize your comfort. This may make you uncomfortable, but you can say this in a friendly tone to make it easier for the homeless person to hear.
“I’m Right There With You, Buddy”
Take your empathy one step further and let the homeless person know you are on their side. If you see the same person on your journey to work, stop and say hello regularly.
“I Don’t Have Any Cash Right Now, I Will Be Sure to Give You Some Next Time I See You”
You may donate money to homeless people, but you may not have any spare cash. You can politely tell them you have no cash on you but will try to help them next time.
“Here’s a Dollar”
You don’t have to give a homeless person a lot of money; offering a dollar shows that you care but without going out of your comfort zone. This is a good strategy you can use if there are several homeless people you want to help out.
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