If you look at any dating site, you’ll find bios filled with the usual qualities that attract people, such as “likes to work out,” “good with pets,” and a “good sense of humor.” However, there are some things that men do that some people find odd but very attractive to others. In a recent online post, one woman inquired what activities men do that women find attractive; some of the answers were surprising. We take a look at 21 of the most bizarre things men do but women find alluring.
Glasses
As one user puts it, “Some guys look attractive in glasses”. If you have that Clark Kent look, don’t fret, there is a woman out there for you.
Gray Sweats
Gray sweats may just be for lounging around or heading to the gym but so many women find them a turn-on, it seems.
“On the lighter side” was the very specific answer from one poster, and the thread took note!
Their Hands
One person said that a good smile and nice hands were admirable in a man, although we don’t think this is weird as such. This pleased one male reader who said, “I was always told I should be a hand model, but I thought it was just a sly way of saying I’m ugly.” You see, there really is someone for everyone.
Veins
A man took to the thread to tell people that “They always told me they like my veins, but is that really that nice? Lol.” Some people were confused by this, as are we, but concluded that this must be the veins you see when people work out a lot.
A Silly Laugh
Making people laugh is always a good sign in a relationship, and one person agreed when they said, “Gotta agree with some of the people on here. It’s really cute when they do that silly laugh or when they’re just fooling around with their friends.”
Geeks
“When they actually geek out about stuff” was the response of one forum user who apparently enjoys it when men feel comfortable with their hobbies, which is what we like to see.
Acting Like They Are 6-Years-Old
A man who is not afraid to be childish can be attractive to some women as it shows they are not too serious. One woman explained when she said, “You know, like make you a heart of candy, write your name in a notebook or on the body. In those scenarios, I feel like I made a man turn into a sweet kid who found his first love, and I love it.” Awwww!
Dog-Eared Books
One woman confessed that when a man gives her a well-used book to read, she could not love him more. She says, “It’s like getting a little glimpse into their mind.” That is an interesting way to look at it.
Getting Excited
One woman shares how she simply loves men who get excited about things they like. She says, “I like when they get excited about something and share that with me”. We love the fact that people find different things attractive, and this woman can embrace whatever a man feels excited about.
Household Chores
It should not be weird that men do things around the house but one woman felt that she needed to say that she found it attractive when they do. She said, “Household chores. Vacuuming, cooking, and dishes especially.” While we agree this is an alluring trait, it should be something all men do.
Rambling
If you love chatty men, then you will agree with the woman who said, “When they start rambling about things they find interesting, it’s really cute :).” We agree it can be cute, within reason!
Arm Action
In a very specific turn-on declaration, one woman said she enjoyed men “putting their arm over the passenger chair when reversing.” There were lots of strong agreement with this statement, including one woman who said, “This! I can’t even explain why. This is oddly specific but extremely hot.”
Opening Jars
Yes, you read that correctly. One woman is attracted by men who open jars! She says, “not letting you carry anything heavy, opening jars for you, opening a door when he’s behind you.” To be fair, reading this statement indicated that she enjoys men who show good manners in general.
Smirking
Smirking may look a little sneaky, but it does not always mean a man is making fun of you. One woman said, “Hmm, I have a strange taste, but I like the small smirk they get when they succeed at something. So cute!!
Play the Saxophone
One musical woman told us she could not resist a man with a specific musical talent when she said, “Play saxophone, don’t know why, but that’s hot.”
“If music is the food of love, play on,” as Shakespeare said.