A question about what guys secretly find attractive in women was asked on a popular forum recently, and some of the answers will surprise you. We take a look at 21 things guys secretly find attractive but do not own up to.
Thick Thighs
One man posted that he liked “firm/thick thighs” and one woman was glad to hear it when she said “Glad to see this one in the comments. Always been proud of having strong/’thick’ thighs but it’s reassuring to know others would appreciate them too haha.”
Short Skirts And Thigh Highs
One brave, yet anonymous, man cheekily said “Short skirts and thigh highs are something I would never ask for any girl I date to wear. I will, however, continue to pray that a woman I love will also love thigh highs and short skirts.” We doubt very much that he would make this statement to his girlfriend.
Organization
Forget the sexy skirts, one man says that “I love a woman that is organized.” We wonder whether this man wants a woman or someone to be his secretary.
Crooked Teeth
Perfection is not all it cracked up to be, and when it comes to looks, every person has their likes and dislikes. One said, “I like messed up a bit teeth better than perfect teeth, and I dated a girl who had a slight lisp, and I found it attractive, idk why.” We love that this man looks at people’s imperfections.
Grey Hair
The aging process is not a turn-off for all people as one man says that he likes “Either 100% gray or just a few streaks”. What a guy!
Dorky Women
Personality goes a long way when it comes to attraction as one man says that he likes “Women being dorky and goofy. But the women that are like that, probably wouldn’t be offended being told it.” We are sure if he explained what you mean they would like him.
Tall
Many men seem to prefer shorter women but one man says he likes women who are all and “I know it’s not their fault if they’re short, and I feel like a jerk for preferring tall girls, but that’s just how I feel.”
Short
As it goes to show, every man prefers something different; one man says that he prefers “Short and curvy for me. Vive le difference.” Every height is catered for, it appears.
Independence
One man talked about how it is not just looks and obvious personality traits that determine whether a woman is attractive, for him, it went deeper. He said she “has her life together and isn’t looking for a husband/partner as her ‘life survival strategy’. That way, the love that blossoms, I feel, is a lot more genuine and less transactional.” This sounds like a man looking for long-term love.
Hoodies
In another unique entry, loungewear was high on the agenda for one man who said: “Big hoodies, idk why it’s so attractive.” We are not sure why either but this man got a lot of likes, so a woman being comfortable is evidently a turn-on.
No Make-up
A lot of people feel naked without their makeup on but some men enjoy the natural look, as one online user said, “I don’t mean to say makeup is bad. There are times to wear it. But if a woman can be around me and not feel the need to wear makeup, that is when I feel totally trusted.” Get those wipes out, ladies, and embrace your natural skin.
Monty Python
In a very niche move, one forum member said, “If she can quote Monty Python, she is all that!” It seems that a way to a man’s heart is through humor.
Paying Attention
We are not sure if this is cute or sad but we like it anyway — “Her noticing me, making plans to hang out with me.” All together now, awwww.
Snort Laughing
In another cute move, one man says, “Girls who snort when they laugh really hard. They’re always immediately embarrassed, but I think it’s super cute.” We think this is pretty cute of this guy to say that he thinks to snort laughing is cute. Cuteness overload!
Being Ditzy
Being strict and professional is not for the guy who said, “I prefer ditzy sweet women over serious professional ones. Like art teacher vibes over corporate suit vibes.” Businesswomen start and down for this one!
Being Discreet On Social Media
In an admittedly misogynistic move, one member said: “This DEFINITELY sounds like something an unpleasant person would say, but I’d say not showing her body off on social media excessively.” Yes, we think this man is going to have a problem if he doesn’t allow women to be who she wants to be.
A Good Cook
In another post that will most definitely raise eyebrows, one man bravely says, “Being able to cook. A woman who relies on restaurants to feed her is gonna be expensive.” We think this guy may be making his own dinner from now on.
Small Melons
While a lot of men prefer large-breasted women, one man says that he prefers small ones. “Plus, hair that is black or brunette women are my thing. Not to say that I don’t enjoy a blonde once in a while.”
Eye Bags
Women dread getting eye bags and pay a lot of money for expensive creams to hide the ones they do have. However, one person said, “Bags under eyes. Somehow makes any girl a lot hotter because they look tired and a little sad. Is that weird? That’s probably weird.” Maybe it is weird but it is encouraging for lots of women.
Being Humble
One man is clear on what he finds attractive when he says, “Being humble. Comes off a little sexist in the wrong context, but I just prefer humble people in general.” We wonder if he is as humble as he wants his women to be.
Thick Hair
A “head full of thick and flowing hair” is the order of the day for one man looking for love. Rapunzel may be spoken for but we are lots of other long-locked lovers out there.
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