The author’s life was turned upside down when their parents passed away in an accident last year. After discovering substantial life insurance policies but no will, the woman and their siblings agreed to split everything between them. The woman was 27, their brother was 28, and their sister was 34.
No Financial Conflicts
In the weeks following the accident, the woman’s aunt and uncle reached out to help with the process. However, the woman’s sister-in-law insisted that they keep everything between themselves to avoid conflicts over money. She even organized estate appointments and convinced the author’s brother to quit his job to become the executor of their parents’ estates. The siblings all moved into their parents’ house to “help” the woman, who was already living there.
She Paid for Medication
Despite agreeing to sort out the financial stuff later, the siblings focused on mourning and surviving. The woman, who had a chronic illness and lived in America, was grateful when their sister-in-law stepped in to help pay for their medicine, which cost $120 a month at the clinic.
HOW Much?!
After six months, the siblings decided to sell their parents’ house. The woman’s siblings had tallied every expense, including their “loss of wages,” and sent the woman a $60,000 bill. When the inheritances were paid out, the woman and their brother received more than their sister. To equalize it, the brother and sister-in-law came up with a plan to give their sister some from each inheritance.
Split Between NON-Family
While the brother handled the estate stuff, the sister-in-law contacted realtors to sell the other properties their parents owned. As they prepared to sell the final property, the sister-in-law proposed dividing the money from the sale equally between all four of them, including herself. She also suggested that anyone who did not show up to agreed-upon workdays for repairs would have 1% of their share taken and divided between the other three.
They Didn’t Trust Her
The woman, who had been unable to make it to all the workdays due to their chronic illness, offered to work on the house when the others were not present. However, the siblings did not accept this, saying they could not be sure the woman had done any work.
A Manic Episode
As they prepared to sign the final papers to sell the house, the woman made it clear that they did not intend to give anyone any extra money. The woman felt that their siblings were nickel-and-diming them and that they were not interested in a real relationship beyond what they could get. The woman’s sister accused them of being in a manic episode and told their aunt to “butt out.”
Selfish Behavior
The woman felt hurt and betrayed by their siblings’ behavior. They reflected, “It’s like they’re only interested in what they can get out of this situation. They don’t care about our relationship or how I’m feeling.” The woman’s sister-in-law’s proposal to divide the money equally, including her share, felt particularly unfair to the woman. They said, “She’s not even a blood relative. Why should she get a share of the money?”
Stand Up
The woman’s experience has taught them the importance of standing up for themselves and their rights. They said, “I’ve learned that I need to be more assertive and stand up for what I believe in. I can’t let people walk all over me.” The woman’s aunt, who has been supportive throughout the process, has encouraged them to seek legal advice to protect their interests.
Real Family Shining Through
Despite the difficulties they’ve faced, the woman is grateful for the lessons they’ve learned. They said, “This experience has shown me who my real family is. It’s not just about blood relations. It’s about the people who are there for you and support you no matter what.” The woman has learned to value the relationships that are based on love and support rather than just financial gain.
The Internet Responded
This commenter wrote, “Having been executor of two estates, I can tell you nothing about it involved quitting my job. Unless your parents are leaving a multi-million dollar estate with a foundation, this is unnecessary. So charging you 6 months’ loss of wages is ridiculous. There were a couple of probate court dates that involved 1 day off work, but your brother and SIL are taking advantage. Also, why does your SIL feel entitled to a share of YOUR parent’s estate? It should be divided into thirds, and she shares in her husband’s share. I would definitely lawyer up as you are being bilked.”
Another Internet Response
Another internet supporter commented, “You need to contact attorneys first thing tomorrow. You need an estate attorney. From what you’ve described, there are serious issues here. Do not try to do it yourself, and please don’t sign or agree to ANYTHING without speaking to an attorney first.”
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