When her bridesmaid chooses to make her own dress choice on the day of the wedding, the bride makes a tough decision to have her removed from the ceremony, and everyone feels she is in the wrong.
A Snow Theme
When the woman planned her wedding, she took into account that where she lived, Canada, had a large a great deal of snowfall. As a result, she chose to have a winter-themed wedding.
Winter Wonderland Wedding
Her wedding was back in December, New Year’s Eve, to be precise. It was a stunning winter setting with a forest green and gold color scheme. A warm venue with a log fire, ideal for the time of year.
The Bride’s Vision
With the color theme being forest green and gold, she chose those colors for her bridesmaid’s dresses. Her wedding dress was obviously white, as per the traditional bride.
A Dramatic Enhancement
To really make the wedding party stand out, she chose a stunning black dress for her maid of honor. To bring all of the dresses to life, she wanted all of her bridesmaids to wear gold accessories.
A Friendship with Flaws
Introducing Kat, a friend who, from the start, didn’t quite see eye to eye with the bride’s choice of dress colors. When they went dress shopping, she wasn’t happy about the idea of forest green for her bridesmaid dress.
Differing Opinions
The bride said that the color didn’t matter and that she’d ensure that the dresses fitted well and enhanced the individual physiques of each of her bridesmaids. She wanted them to feel comfortable and confident.
Unflattering Choice
Kat argued that forest green was an unflattering color and wouldn’t do anything for her. She said that she’d feel unattractive all day and that she wouldn’t enjoy herself at the wedding.
A ‘Girly’ Girl
Granted, Kat was very much a girly girl. She liked to express her femininity and always chose dresses in pale pastel colors, often with floral prints and accessories.
Personal Preference
Based on her own desires, Kat insisted that the bridesmaids should be more girly and less masculine in color. She listened to Kats’s ideas, but they all consisted of pink, beige, or peach shades. The bride said that this conflicted with her winter theme.
A Selfish Ask
She eventually stopped complaining about the color, and they moved on to other aspects of the wedding. Kat then found out the maid of honors dress was black and asked if she could wear black, too. The bride said no, only the maid of honor was wearing black.
Clash of Opinions
With everything in place, the bride paid for all of the dresses. Kat reluctantly agreed to wear the forest green, though she made it painstakingly clear that she wasn’t happy about it, proceeding to tell everyone who would listen about her dissatisfaction.
Food Dilemma
The wedding plans continued, but Kat seemed to express issues with numerous aspects, including the wedding breakfast. She said she wasn’t happy and wanted a different food option. The bride advised her that she’d ensure that she was looked after.
The Wedding Day Dawns
The wedding day arrived, creating anticipation and tension in equal measure. The bride wanted everything to go smoothly, so the usual nerves were in place, as well as knowing that she’d be center stage, which unnerved her.
A Late Arrival
In the morning, everyone was getting their hair and makeup done, and Kat showed up thirty minutes late. Everyone had been panicking as she hadn’t answered calls or texts, leaving them to wonder if she would show at all.
Kat’s Unexpected Accessory
The bride noticed that she was holding a bag that looked like it had a dress inside. She asked her what this was for, and she told her it was for later on at the reception if she got uncomfortable and wanted to change after pictures. The bride was agreeable and said no problem.
A Dash of Defiance
They were all dressed and walking down the stairs as the ceremony was beginning in thirty minutes. They were just going to take some pictures beforehand. Kat was the last person to come down, and she was wearing a BLACK DRESS.
An Intervention
At the time, the bride was preoccupied with taking pictures with her parents, but her maid of honor dashed over to her and made her aware of the situation. As expected, she wasn’t happy at all!
Confrontation Looms
The bride took matters into her own hands, confronting Kat about her bold black dress. She said she hated her bridesmaid dress, as the color was ugly and made her look gross, so she was wearing black.
A Stubborn Stance
The bride urged her to please go back and change. She said that it was for one day only and to please just do it for her. Kat refused and started walking away from her.
An Ultimatum
The bride said she was going to ask her one more time, and if she didn’t oblige, she was calling security and kicking her out. She began yelling at her to ‘back off,’ so she called security and asked them to please escort her out.
A Scene Unfolds
An explosive scene unfolded, with Kat accusing the bride of being inconsiderate and, to put it lightly, unkind. She started making a BIG scene, yelling how the bride was spiteful, that she couldn’t force her to wear anything, and that she was a horrible, inconsiderate friend.
The Show Goes On
Despite the drama, the wedding ceremony proceeded as planned, with the bride and her vision intact. Despite the initial stress, she managed to switch off it so it didn’t ruin her entire day.
Post-Wedding Fallout
After the wedding, Kat started blowing up her phone with texts saying some really nasty things and asking for the money she spent on the black dress. She demanded that she owed it to her.
A Nasty Turnaround
Refusing to cave in to her demands, the bride refused to refund her money, stating that she shouldn’t have even bought the dress. With the vicious texts continuing, she eventually had to block her number.
A Minority Decision
Some of her other bridesmaids said that it was a little harsh kicking her out and embarrassing her like that. And that maybe she should give her the money back.
Second-Guessing the Decision
The bride reflected on her choice to remove Kat from the wedding, wondering if it was indeed too harsh. Her new husband felt that she’d done the right thing and fully supported her decision. However, with her friendship now lost, she still questioned her actions and pondered over whether she really did do the right thing.
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