If you are a woman on the lookout for the perfect man you may want to check out this list of 16 things that men find unattractive in women. The list is compiled from a recent online forum in which men discussed what turned them off when it comes to women.
To start, one man said that when a woman is “rude to my friends and loved ones for no reason” he would not be attracted to her. Another user said that “Unattractive when both men and women do it.” We have to agree, rudeness from anyone is a huge red flag.
One person said of his girlfriend “I recently found out that she lies about a lot of small details. It makes me wonder how much more she’s been lying to me about.” Trust is a huge deal in any relationship so when it is broken it is difficult to see how a couple can stay together.
Gossip About Her Friends
When this unlikeable trait was mentioned on the thread it got one response that said “It’s not black and white of course, but excessively gossiping about people or being genuinely mean about people behind their backs is a major turn-off for me.” This seems like sound advice and something to look out for when dating.
This should be an obviously bad thing to do, by both sexes to be fair, but some people felt the need to make it clear when one said “Every other bad thing I’ve read so far can depend on context but this one is just a nail in the coffin regardless to any reasons.”
The person who shouted this out went on to explain that when a girl says things like “You’re not allowed to talk to another girl on social media” then it is a surefire sign to exit the relationship. It is fair to say that when you make a demand in a relationship it needs to be something that you would think it fair to do yourself.
Two Inch Long Fake Fingernails
This comment got a lot of upvotes and one person was quick to agree by saying “Yep when she’s got the “pornstar nails” it’s a complete turn-off for me” It seems some women really need to cut their nails.
Lack of Empathy
“This, this aaaaaaaand this!” One person exclaimed as they were exasperated by dating women who were selfish and uncaring.
Chewing With Their Mouth Open
Manners and table manners came up a lot in this thread with chewing being a particularly unattractive trait. One user said “Chewing with your mouth open is nasty. My mother always said it makes you look like a cow.” That comment may be going a bit far but we get the picture.
Playing Mind Games
Some people just want people to be straight and upfront as one member out it when they said “Yea I hate tests. I’ll purposely fail them just so I can prove my point that I ain’t chasing you. I’m perfectly okay with chilling with my cat all day.”
Stringing People Along
One man said that he has had enough of women messing him around and explained that “I recently cut ties with a woman I had a lot of compatibility with because I noticed she was stringing multiple guys along for attention”. Playing hard to get is not the turn-on some women think it is.
For one man online, a ‘Karen’ is so unattractive. They went into more detail by saying “I don’t want to be in that kind of relationship it would be so annoying, embarrassing, and would lead to such a toxic relationship.”
One man said a big turn-off is for women to be “Be intellectually non-curious. I’m attracted to smarty pantsers.” While not everyone can be professor-like with their dating skills, it seems some men think brains are more important than beauty.
It can be difficult to navigate dating protocol and this sometimes leads to women being over the top in their mannerisms. However, according to one man, they need to be careful as it can come across as fake. One person said “If I see you being an unpleasant person I know your dark side. If you fake being nice I don’t know what you’re hiding, it’s scary.”
Not Looking After Her Child
One man said that a woman not looking after her child is unattractive and while total neglect is obviously worrying, some people pointed out that the baby’s father needs to look after the child too. One person said “Both parents should be equally involved” and pointed out the sexism in the comment.
Talking About Their Ex
Date etiquette says that any talk of an ex is banned as it can be very uncomfortable. It seems some women did not get the memo as one person said they hate when women “refuse to shut up about their ex on a first date.”
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