Don’t you wish you could be a fly on the wall when your girl hangs out with her friends? What would the woman in your life say when you’re the topic of conversation?
To give you an idea of what women say to their friends about you, we turned to the females of an online forum. Here are 13 things they discuss with their friends when discussing you.
What You’re Like in the Bedroom
“Most girls will go into much detail with their closest friends. It varies by friend group, but at least some of their closest friends will have a percentage if not all information.”
Be ready to have your prowess (or lack thereof) in the bedroom discussed.
The New Guy in Their Life
“So the wife and I were out one evening eating and having a few drinks, and her best friend stopped by to have a drink with us. She had recently told the world that she was in a relationship with a particular fellow (apparently had been seeing him for a while but finally openly made it known on social media).
The wife did the usual ‘so tell us about him’ and she went into details about him owning his own business, he was good with her kids, he takes her to do whatever she wants, buys her whatever she wants (he’s loaded by the way), just the sweetest guy ever.”
Girls love to talk about how happy they are with the new love in their lives.
Body Comparison
“I also generally hang out with people who are very anti-body shaming in general, though. I have no tolerance for petty nonsense like that.”
It must be a chore to keep your body looking so amazing and youthful.
Time for Intelligent Conversation
“We discuss real issues but never gossip about our lovemaking or private, intimate pillow talk with lovers. That sounds like some basic, unintelligent Kardashian drivel imo.”
Yep, some girls like to natter amongst themselves about things that truly matter. Forget the trivial topics.
Can I Get Your Input?
“I’m wracking my brain trying to think of any time my friends have discussed anything remotely intimate like that, and the closest I can come up with is my friend telling me her husband isn’t circumcised — and she only brought that up because I was fretting over whether or not to circumcise my son and I straight up asked her if she had, with hers. That’s when she revealed she didn’t, but only bc her husband wasn’t. She would NEVER just offer up jerk descriptions, and I would never ask.”
There are times when the females only want one another’s opinion on a pressing family situation.
I Don’t Want to Talk About That
“I don’t even tell my friends much about myself, let alone another person.”
Keeping your cards close to your chest is a great move.
I Need to Tell You Something Juicy
“I have also had women share their friends’ secrets with me consistently. I would say the majority of women cannot keep secrets to save their lives.”
A female gathering can become a gossip fest.
Give Me Some Advice
“Women usually talk about everything. If they have issues, they talk about it with friends to see if they have the same issues or if they have tips.”
Women getting together can become an informal support group.
Oh Sorry, I Didn’t Know It Was a Secret
“If you tell me something personal about you, I will maintain your privacy unless it’s so mundane that I don’t realize it was supposed to be a secret. On one occasion, I accidentally mentioned that a friend dropped out of uni when I knew she didn’t want anybody to know. I immediately went to her and owned up, and apologized. I just forgot that she kept it quiet because it didn’t seem like anything to be ashamed of. I will endeavor never to make that mistake again.”
Seemingly insignificant things can be seen as fair game when it comes to sharing the news with others.
I Have Nothing to Hide
“Women usually are very open with each other about all aspects of their lives.”
There is a possibility of all the cards being laid out on the table when a woman gets together with her female friends.
Do You Think Hooking Up With This Guy Is a Good Idea?
“Typically, if anything, I am hard on myself and ask if I should ask them to hook up again after what happened. OR say maybe someone had a bad experience their first time with this person and wanted to know if they should give them another hookup to redeem the previous one. So then you would go into some details with your friends about what happened to get their input.”
When a relationship turns sour, a female-to-female perspective is what’s needed.
Past Relationships
“I only talk that kind of stuff with my friends about exes.”
That kind of stuff is the more intimate side of the relationship.
How’s Everything Going in the Relationship?
“In my group of friends, we’re more likely to discuss the ‘relationship dynamic’/practicalities side of things: he never initiates, we can rarely be bothered after 8 pm, I find things different at that time of the month, he finds things different at that time of the month, etc.”
It’s good to release that negative energy.
Want to Keep Your Affairs Private?
As you can see, women talk to one another about everything. It can be helpful when they are seeking advice for a personal issue. It’s not that great when they compare notes on the relationship’s intimacy.
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