OP is a 19-year-old living with roommates, one of whom is a 21-year-old male who has a snack constantly. OP suggested that he should attempt going vegan for a more nutritious lifestyle, but he rejected her proposal.
She Stole His Snacks and Replaced Them With Healthier Options
After their conversation, he started buying snacks and eating them loudly. OP found this behavior unpleasant and decided to steal his snacks and replace them with healthier options. However, he was upset when he found out about it, and OP’s friends also criticized her for being a “snack thief.” OP wonders if she was in the wrong for taking matters into her own hands.
Don’t Steal People’s Stuff
There is a general consensus in the comment section that OP is not acting properly. She is trying to push his beliefs on his roommate, who has gone too far.
“So… you decide to go vegan. Fine. You try and convince your roommate to go vegan, too …annoying but fine. He says no (obviously). Now, you believe he is buying non-vegan snacks to spite you…? Seriously? OP, the world does not revolve around you. Other people don’t make their decisions around you. Leave the poor man alone! YTA. Don’t steal people’s stuff. This is a no-brainer for most people OP.”
She Should Be Able to Express Her Views
This is a good generalization of the opinions of a huge proportion of the thread. There are several who are firstly against OP’s attitude towards her roommate. Although she should be able to express her views about veganism and the benefits it has, this should be the extent of her actions.
As Long as OP Was Being Respectful, Then It Was Fine
As long as OP was being respectful and not overly demanding about his dietary choices, then it was fine. However, as soon as she began messing with his roommate’s food, most commenters agreed she had gone too far.
The Accusation Is Crazy
The accusation that he would be purchasing and consuming non-vegan snacks out of spite is crazy. He is just acting as most people do, eating a typical diet. There are many in support of calling OP selfish and thinking that if his roommate is not conforming to his beliefs, then he is in some way trying to antagonize OP.
Stealing Is Never Acceptable
Stealing is never acceptable. Therefore, stealing food in response to an already twisted perspective has destroyed OP’s credibility in the eyes of the thread. This is a direct violation of her roommate’s rights.
She’s the Reason Vegans Have a Bad Name
Several of the commenters are highlighting that OP is the reason vegans have a bad name. Pushing this agenda never tends to go down well, never mind being a thief as well:
“What he eats is not your business. And you seem to want to be the stereotype of a vegan person who wants to veganize the world. You’re not superior for your veganism and should not be making choices for him. It’s his body. If he ever shows curiosity about veganism, be helpful.
I’d be pretty offended if somebody made a move to change my snacks. Wouldn’t you? Come on.”
People Are Free to Make Their Own Choices
Online users are in support of this position. People in the modern world are free to make their own choices. This includes the freedom to put whatever they choose into their body.
Her Attitude Is Sanctimonious
This comment suggests that OP’s attitude is sanctimonious, asserting that she is right and any other style of living is fundamentally wrong. Again, this is not a reasonable perspective, and forcing a viewpoint on another person is never considered a good thing.
Will Minimize Her Chance of Converting Her Roommate
In being so assertive, OP has also restricted the opportunity for his roommate to resonate with veganism. By stealing his food and presenting a hardline view of veganism, he will likely impact his roommate’s perspective on a diet. This, ironically, will minimize the chance for OP actually to convert her roommate.
A Final Comment From Online Users
Finally, this comment makes an excellent point. Were OP to have experienced the same actions but in reverse, it would be a totally different story. This would be entirely unacceptable, and most likely, OP would understand that this is an unacceptable way to treat another person.
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