A social media mom recently shared a glimpse into her life as she anticipates the arrival of her fifth child. However, what could have been a heartwarming post took a different turn when viewers noticed the lack of assistance from her husband when it came to household chores.
First Challenges
In the video, the mom opened up about her challenging first birth experience and expressed her desire to support new mothers who may be apprehensive about embracing this unfamiliar role.
Chores Never End
While the intention behind the video was to offer insights into the birthing process, viewers quickly zeroed in on the fact that the mom-to-be was still managing household chores while experiencing contractions.
Man About the House
The video received an outpouring of love and support for the mom’s bravery in navigating her fifth pregnancy. However, there was also a notable concern regarding the husband’s lack of involvement in helping her during this critical time.
Social Media Speaks
The primary commenter, sharing their birthing journey, invites you to witness the delivery of their fifth baby. During their first pregnancy, they had no idea what to expect when it came to giving birth. They longed for someone who could guide them through the potential duration of labor, the interventions used, and the available options. Determined to help others, they decided to document and share their complete birthing experience.
Down With the Hicks
As they started recording, the commenter experienced their first intense contractions. While they had been having Braxton Hicks contractions for several weeks, this time, they were different. The contractions encompassed their entire uterus, rather than being localized, growing stronger with each passing moment. The increasing intensity made them realize the need to start timing the contractions.
Rules to Apply
According to the 5-1-1 rule, it’s advised to head to the hospital when contractions occur at least every 5 minutes, last for a minute each, and continue consistently for an hour. Despite delivering large babies, weighing over 10 lbs, the commenter never had a cesarean section solely due to their size. Though they opted for epidurals in their previous births, they were determined to have an unmedicated delivery for their fifth child. However, they ultimately couldn’t endure the pain, knowing it would hinder their ability to push effectively.
Interestingly, the commenter expressed their satisfaction with epidural births as it allowed them to relax and fully engage in the experience. Relaxation played a crucial role, and each time they attempted an unmedicated birth, labor failed to progress. It’s important to note that these experiences are personal, and every individual will have a different birth story.
Laundry for the No Good
In the footage, the mom’s husband was seen doing laundry, explaining that he didn’t want her to return home to a pile of dirty clothes. Two viewers explicitly questioned why the husband, who desires a larger family, couldn’t contribute to the household chores.
Response from the Community
“This man wants five kids but can’t handle the laundry?” wrote one user, while another commented, “Why wasn’t your husband helping with the laundry?”
Congratulations
Despite these concerns, the majority of comments remained positive, applauding the mom’s resilience and offering heartfelt congratulations.
Discussions
Amidst the mixed reactions, it becomes evident that the husband’s neglect of chores struck a chord with Social Media users, sparking discussions about gender roles and the importance of support during pregnancy.
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